Psychologists have studied dating (also sometimes called mating by evolutionary psychologists) for 100 years (more or less). We are therefore able to give young, unexperienced novices expert advice. This advice is particularly important for young men because the human mating ritual in many cultures still puts them in the position of the actor who has to initiate a complex mating ritual (Elain on Seinfeld: “We mostly play defense”). The leading experts from elite universities like Harvard are willing to share their knowledge, but these personalized courses are not yet available, and probably not free.
Fortunately, I am able to provide free expert advice with a brief instructional video that illustrates all the things you should NOT do on a first date. Just do the opposite and you will be fine. Please add further suggestions in the comment section. Advice from classy women is especially welcome.